"Compromise” is a most valuable skill to possess, but not in all situations. It is one, however, that some are feeling compelled to activate at this time. It’s been nearly six months since many have committed to the quest of manifesting their heart’s desires. Some have been experiencing great success. Others, not so much. It is the latter that, out of frustration and impatience, have begun to engage in the practice of compromise.
During the past month, conversations have been had about the impatience experienced and mounting frustrations in not yet beholding the manifestation of “the greatest desires”. Maybe such desires included wealth, a home, a career, a special relationship, a new car, etc. The fact is, whatever the specific desire is, no matter how big or how small, matters not. Again, what does matter is the attention we are giving to our desires and how we are projecting that attention.
Before we go on, I must say now - Congratulate yourself for recognizing that you are making compromises! Better to be aware of our own actions than not. Through this recognition we have the opportunity to advance toward our goals. It is when we can recognize our actions that we can determine if continuing with the same is of benefit or not. So, pat yourself on the back!
Now, let’s look a bit closer at the implications of compromise upon our manifesting our heart’s desires. To compromise means we are willing to accept less than our personal ideal. Are we really willing to accept less? Or are we simply giving in to old beliefs of what is possible? Or are we engaged in something else?
If you are truly willing, with a joyful heart, to accept what could be viewed as “less than” what you initially wanted to manifest, you may simply be in a process of clarifying your heart’s
desires. Often it’s a natural process we can go through as we become more attentive and
observant of what we are witnessing and feeling. This is not an act of compromise.
If we discover we are having mental conversations about what we would do “just in case” our heart’s desires do not manifest, then we ARE in a process of compromising. It is an experience that will most likely lead to very disappointing results in the end, even if not initially. “But I REALLY do want ________! It’s just SO hard to wait! Patience is NOT a virtue of mine! Etc.” If you are one of many who are now having those responses, I urge you to remember to pay
attention to your self talk and the power of both your words and thoughts.
Remember, the answer is always “yes”! If your words are about wanting, you’ll continue to want (i.e.”yes”). If your thoughts are about how difficult something is, it will continue to be difficult (i.e.”yes”). Etc. And if your thoughts are fluctuating between two potential outcomes because you are considering a compromise (“just incase”), which outcome does the Source know to say “yes” to? In our own experiences it is clear we can never respond if someone is indecisive about what they want from us, even if it is our desire to say “yes”.
What is it that you really want? What process are you really engaged in? These are the questions to be asking yourself if you, like many others, are aware of compromising moments.
We leave you this month with our blessings for clarity & certainty.
Wish, Dream, Believe, Expect!
Sandy
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